Sandy | 婷

I've been brainstorming hard for an appropriate topic for my 1st blog entry. It's not that I haven't found anything intriguing to babble on (more like found too many of them). At last, I've decided to start off with one that's close to my heart - family, more precisely, my sister.



Sandy

O where shall I begin with this 2-year my junior sibling of mine? Hmm...let's start by writing something that I will NEVER, I repeat, NEVER say to her face-to-face.

"You are one of the smartest girl I know and I am very proud to be your sister!"

There are numerous, countless, multitudinous number of times that I wish she never exists or want to eliminate her out of existence. But when that anger dies down, I cannot be more fortunate to have a sister like her. Her strong desire to excel in life is my motivation to keep pushing boundaries and continue venturing my life towards higher, unknown grounds. I never want to fall behind her footsteps, if not ahead. I guess this is what you call "sibling rivalry"?

But this sibling rivalry is probably one of the best things in my life. What's better than a contender whose also an ally? Success tastes that much sweeter when you can share it with whom that both challenge and support you to achieve it. Sometimes it is the oxymoron in life that completes us.

Don't expect me to ever say those few words in person. Why? I need to keep her ego in check...HA! =P


婷

我和這個妹真的不太像姐妹，除了中文名和高度相約之外，從樣貌、性格、到衣著品味、生活習慣，我和她的共通點近付零。雖然未嘗不是一件好事，最低限度不會爭男朋友，但就常常鬥嘴。如果在同一屋簷下相處二十四小時不對峙一次的話，那天太陽必定從西邊起。

不過我很興幸有她這個妹，她讓我學會怎樣和人鬥贏嘴，因為能夠學會鬥贏她的話，其他人只要用三成功力就能擺平。講笑！弄一弄爛gag而已！

說真的，她讓我學懂耐心地從他人角度了解事物，訓練我擁有頗高EQ與不同意見的人溝通。如果沒有她，我可能不會領悟到如何用坦率、敢言但溫和的態度對待別人。

如果你覺得我有點囂或"寸"，那你就一定沒遇見過我這位小妹妹了！>_^



P.S. 小女子初次提筆如錯字百出（像鄧才女）或詞不達意，請多多包含和多多指教！^_^